Tragedy is not mere suffering,
sadness, melancholia, depression, misfortune, grief, pain, or loss. Suffering is an evil; it is not
beautiful. No evil is beautiful. Pain, sickness, death, loss, misfortune,
strife, betrayal, and grief are all evil. They are, in themselves, ugly.
Tragedy involves all of these
things, but tragedy is beautiful.
Tragedy is beautiful because love
is beautiful.
Tragedy and love are mutually
inclusive.
There is no tragedy
without love. There is no love without
tragedy.
Tragedy is the beauty which
subsists in the presence of ugliness. It is the good which is present amidst
great evil. It is the truth which cannot
be crowded out by lies. No state of
events can properly be called a “tragedy” unless its present and defining love
is true enough to outlive its opposing evil.
Evil is synonymous with a lack of
beauty, a lack of goodness, and a lack of truth. The evil we experience in tragedy only
reveals – exaggerates – the kernel of truth, beauty, and goodness intrinsic to
love. The evil characteristic of tragedy
is a darkness which serves to amplify our experience of a light too subtle to
notice under mundane circumstances.
Every relationship we have with
what is beautiful and good is haunted by the mortality of the object’s
beauty. Whatever is beautiful and good in
our experience can be crushed. It can be
turned into something ugly. The source
of the tragedy in this case is the relationship of the lover to what is loved. We mourn, to some degree, the loss of that
beautiful thing. The thing, once passed,
is no longer there, but our love for it, our desire to have it remain for beauty’s sake, persists. We experience the absence of it. Our love outlives
the object of our love.
How much greater the tragedy when
the relationship is not between lover and beloved thing but between human lovers.
There is not only loss but the
looming inevitably of loss and being lost.
Death is certain. Love however is
not enslaved to death.
As soon as our empathy arises for
something overwhelmed by evil, it is because we have already begun to love
it. “What a shame” we say in our
hearts. We, to some degree, desire that
thing all but too late.
True tragedy, however, is not sympathy. We ourselves experience the evil first-hand
when we experience tragedy. There is a
difference between feeling sympathy for another’s loss and feeling grief at
having lost; between feeling pity for a suffering victim and feeling remorse at
having made a victim. When we experience
tragedy, we are not mere bystanders. In
tragedy, one involves himself in evil by being a lover.
Any love knows that tragedy is
imminent, but love hopes. It does not merely “move on.” When we lose someone, we do not forget for
our own sake. We place our trust in the immortality of love because we
ourselves experience a small taste of that immortality.
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